Unable to send or recieve files on AIM

[Pleyame]

I have not tested it with other protocols, and I only have one user to
test with.  I am using windows 8 64-bit, and he is using windows 7
64-bit.  We cannot send files to each other.  the recipient always
recieves the following in the debug window:

(13:35:47) g_log: byte_stream_advance: assertion `(gsize)n <=
byte_stream_bytes_left(bs)' failed
(13:35:47) g_log: byte_stream_getstr: assertion
`byte_stream_bytes_left(bs) >= len' failed
(13:35:47) oscar: Incoming rendezvous message of type 32, user
nsiwevch, status 0
(13:35:47) oscar: nsiwevch tried to send you a file with incomplete
information.

When sending, I get the following errors, depending if i use the
AIM/ICQ proxy server for file transfers.  All my other settings are
default in regards to proxies and ports.

with AIM/ICQ proxy server on:
(13:54:47) xfer: request accepted for 047A3788
(13:54:47) win32placement: Window RECT: L:0 R:466 T:0 B:309
(13:54:47) win32placement: Working Area RECT: L:0 R:1366 T:0 B:738
(13:54:47) oscar: Calculating checksum of
C:\Users\Christopher\Pictures\Untitled.png
(13:54:47) oscar: Checksum of
C:\Users\Christopher\Pictures\Untitled.png calculated
(13:54:47) dnsquery: Performing DNS lookup for ars.oscar.aol.com
(13:54:47) dnsquery: IP resolved for ars.oscar.aol.com
(13:54:47) proxy: Attempting connection to 64.12.91.243
(13:54:47) proxy: Connecting to ars.oscar.aol.com:5190 with no proxy
(13:54:47) proxy: Connection in progress
(13:54:47) proxy: Connecting to ars.oscar.aol.com:5190.
(13:54:47) proxy: Connected to ars.oscar.aol.com:5190.
(13:54:47) oscar: Outgoing peer proxy frame with type=0x0002,
unknown=0x00000000, flags=0x0000, and payload length=36
(13:54:47) oscar: Incoming peer proxy frame with type=0x0003,
unknown=0x00000000, flags=0x0220, and payload length=6
(13:54:48) oscar: rate change (param ID 0x0001): curavg = 6000, maxavg
= 6000, alert at 2000, clear warning at 2500, limit at 1500, disconnect
at 800, delta is 152097, dropping is 0 (window size = 80)
(13:54:48) oscar: Sent message to nsiwevch.
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with AIM/ICQ proxy server off:
(13:55:33) xfer: request accepted for 047A3C50
(13:55:33) win32placement: Window RECT: L:0 R:466 T:0 B:309
(13:55:33) win32placement: Working Area RECT: L:0 R:1366 T:0 B:738
(13:55:33) oscar: Calculating checksum of
C:\Users\Christopher\Pictures\Untitled.png
(13:55:33) oscar: Checksum of
C:\Users\Christopher\Pictures\Untitled.png calculated
(13:55:33) network: Listening on port: 5190
(13:55:33) network: Couldn't create UPnP mapping
(13:55:33) network: Couldn't create UPnP mapping
(13:55:33) stun: using server
(13:55:34) oscar: rate change (param ID 0x0001): curavg = 6000, maxavg
= 6000, alert at 2000, clear warning at 2500, limit at 1500, disconnect
at 800, delta is 198298, dropping is 0 (window size = 80)
(13:55:34) oscar: Sent message to nsiwevch.